When you think about adoption, what comes to mind? If you picture a baby being left anonymously on a doorstep, you're not alone—movies often portray adoption this way. However, the reality of today’s adoption process is very different.
Adoption today is centered on choices. You have the power to choose the adoptive family and decide whether or not you want to maintain a relationship with them and your child.
If you’re considering adoption, it’s important to gather all the information you need to determine if this is the best option for your unique situation.
When you choose adoption, you’ll collaborate with an adoption coordinator, such as an agency or attorney, to select the adoptive family and develop a personalized adoption plan.
If you decide to place your child with a family member, this is called 'Kinship Adoption.' If the adoptive family is not someone you already know, an agency or attorney can guide you through the process of a private adoption, ensuring you feel supported every step of the way.
What Are The Different Types Of Adoption Plans?
An adoption plan is a document that outlines your communication preferences and goals throughout the adoption process.
While adoption plans are highly customizable, they typically fall into one of three main categories:
Open Adoption: This option allows for open communication between you, the adoptive family, and your child. It’s the most flexible plan and is ideal if you wish to build a long-term relationship with your child. Most modern adoptions are open.
Semi-Open Adoption: Similar to open adoption, but communication is mediated by a third party, such as the adoption agency or attorney.
Closed Adoption: This option involves no exchange of information between you and the adoptive family. However, closed adoptions are rare today.
If you’re considering adoption, we will refer you to licensed adoption agencies to help you determine the adoption plan that best aligns with your desires and goals.
Is Adoption Right For Me?
As you explore whether creating an adoption plan is the right choice for you, take some time to reflect on these important questions:
What do I know about adoption?
What concerns me most about the adoption process?
How might I feel if I choose adoption?
What might my life look like if I choose adoption?
Thinking through these questions can help you gain clarity and guide you toward the best decision for your unique situation.